A 'Swenglish' journey through family photos, notes and postcards
from the early 20th century.

2025-03-29

Uncertainty - Sepia Saturday 768

 In his introduction to Sepia Saturday 768, Alan Burnett writes: 

"Just as a good novel guarantees that you are never sure where the plot is going to take you next, a good collection of old photographs means that you are likely to be taken to the most unexpected places and unexpected times. It is this pleasure, this uncertainty, that we celebrate here on Sepia Saturday."

So I'm grabbing the opportunity to share four photos that still involve quite a bit of uncertainty.

The original photo prints are no larger than 6x8 cm. I  scanned them to enlarge them on my computer screen, which does help a little bit, though. One thing they have in common is that they probably include some people from the parish where my great-grandmother Selma came from (Tvärred). Whether these people were related to her or "just friends" is something I've never been sure of, though. 

In the first photo all but one of the six people are familiar to me, though. The boy at the front is my dad. He was born 1931 and I suppose he must be around 10-12 here (?)  Behind him to the left are his parents (my grandparents) Gustaf and Sally; and to the right his uncle and aunt - Sally's sister Hildur with husband Olle. The one I'm not certain about is the man in the middle. From somewhere at the back of my memory I seem to recall that there were two brothers (?) named Anders and Evert, living at Tvärred, whom I even met a few times in my own early childhood. Who of them is who in old photos, I no longer know, though. And if I ever knew their surname, I've forgotten.

This photo is from earlier in my dad's early childhood. (Does he look 3 or 4 years old to you?) The old woman to the left is my great-grandmother Selma. (She died long before I was born, but I recognise her from many photos.) To the right of the boy who became my dad (Bertil) is my grandmother. The woman with curly hair behind him is her sister Hildur; and behind her, her husband Olle. I suppose the two men to the left must be be the afore-mentioned brothers. As for the third man and the other two women, I have no idea, though. 

 
Judging by their clothes, I'd say this photo must be from the same occasion.



And this photo must be even earlier. 1932 or possibly 33, but no later (my grandmother in the middle, holding a very young version of my dad). Again I'm not sure about where the photo was taken, but it strikes me that this one might be from the farm where my grandmother was born and grew up (and remained living until she got married in 1930). 

I know that besides the farm house (the "big" house), there was also a smaller cottage on the grounds there, which remained my great-grandmother Selma's property until she died. Although the farm was sold after 1930, and Selma too moved in with her daughters and their husbands in the new house that my grandfather built, I recall having been told that the small cottage was still hers, and she liked to spend the summers there. (It was not very far from the new house that my grandfather built.)

It was a common arrangement in old times that when an old farmer retired and let his oldest son take over the running of it, a small cottage + a small piece of land was set aside for the parents, and remained theirs for life. My great grandfather Samuel did let his oldest son (Carl) take over the running of the farm a few years before he died; but remained living on the property with his 2nd wife and three young children. Samuel died in 1907 (when my grandmother was 7, and her younger brother Nils 5).  Carl was a bachelor and never married and had no children himself; and my impression is that he and his step-mum Selma joined forces best they could to make the best of the situation. They probably even all lived together in the main house (or if anyone lived in the small cottage, it was probably Carl). Later on, periodically, Carl's younger brother Gustav (who emigrated to America in 1902, but later returned) also lived on the farm and helped out. 

Carl died in 1928. I've not seen the estate inventory, but I suspect that as he did not have any children of his own, the estate was then inherited by all seven of his siblings and half-siblings still living; and that this led to the farm (except the small cottage belonging to Selma) being sold in 1930/31 - after all three of Selma's children (Nils, Sally and Hildur) had got married and moved out during 1930. 

PS.  /2025-03-31/ A comment from La Nightingale below made me remember where I might find the answer to who's who of the two brothers in the photos above. Some years before my dad died, I sat down with him and went through an envelope of photos that had belonged to Hildur and Olle, my grandmother's sister and brother-in-law. I then put those photos in a special album, with some notes added. And among those is another photo including both brothers from Tvärred. Their surname was Andersson, and from my dad I got the impression they were "friends" rather than relations. The man in the middle in the top photo here is Anders; and second from the left in the 2nd photo is Evert.


(I may be adding a Swedish version of all this below later.)



5 comments:

  1. Nice family photos & at least you seem to know most of who the folks in them are. It is a shame when names aren't written on the backs of photos. I have a whole box of pictures of my husband's grand & great grandparents on one side of his family unidentified. Only one person was identified in one of the photos which led to the probably identification a a few more. But many are unknown.

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    1. Gail, I agree - I wish my grandparents had made more notes in their albums, and on the back of loose photos too. But of course they did not feel the need to at the time, because they knew!! One thing I'm glad of is that a few years before my dad died, I sat down with him and went through one envelope of photos that had belonged to my grandmother's sister, and I then put those in an album and added note of the names. ... And writing that now, it suddenly hit me to check that album - and there I have the answer to who's who of the two brothers Anders and Evert. It's Anders in the top photo in my post here, their surname was Andersson, and they were probably just friends of my grandparents rather than relations.

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  2. I like how this set of outdoor photos, even if in sepia tone, still convey a lovely pastoral quality of a quiet summer. I think in the two photos of your dad crouched on the ground he looks closer to age 6 or even 7, based on my son at that age.

    I have similar collections of family events with my parents and grandparents taken decades before I came along. Usually I can distinguish family relations from friends but I don't understand how. Perhaps it's a vague memory my mother or father once describing the people. The oldest albums with little photos haphazardly pasted onto black paper are easier to figure out than the countless boxes of color slides and printed photos that came later. Sadly I've decided that thousands of photos my dad took after I left home must be trashed as the people and occasions are unknown to me.

    What I have learned from my own family photos and also from following those of my fellow Sepia Saturday bloggers is that old photos generally come in short sequences since early box cameras were limited to 8-12 pictures, and later folding cameras only 12 to 16. Usually the person with the camera is the person missing at the event since they rarely gave the camera over to someone else. Few photos were taken on someone's arrival, instead they usually happened on a departure or at the conclusion of the event. At most family events the central photos are about the food, especially if there is a holiday table spread. And lastly, back in the olden days photos were not casual and random things like they are now. The camera came out for special events like weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, or even a funeral. And people's clothing give the best clues for what kind of event it was.

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    1. Mike, for me it's often my grandfather Gustaf who was behind the camera, and thus missing from the pictures. Working as a journalist, he was also a half-professional photographer, taking his own photos to go with his articles in the newspaper. - You may well be right about my dad being around 6 in those two middle photos (my first impression fooled by his sitting position). I agree about group photos probably usually taken before people left rather than on arrival. Among my grandparents' photos I can't recall many that focus on food, but yes, there are few with people sitting at a coffee table.

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  3. I really enjoyed looking at these photos of family and friends...and congratulations on figuring out the identities of the two friends! Makes me wonder how many photos taking by friends would include family of mine, but I never got to see them. Yes, that makes me think I should scan the rest of the photos I've still got in albums!

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