A 'Swenglish' journey through family photos, notes and postcards
from the early 20th century.
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2025-03-15

Sisters Reunited - Sepia Saturday 766




Yesterday, opening another envelope of miscellaneous old photos taken by my grandfather, I found two of my grandmother Sally (in the middle above) with her sisters (+ brother-in-law) that I can't recall  having seen before. But they were obviously taken on the same occasion as the portraits below of my great-aunt Gerda proudly wearing a medal - previously posted on this blog in a post entitled Gerda's Medal, for Sepia Saturday 634, in August 2022.

That post was about my research to try and establish when and why Gerda was presented with that medal; and my conclusion was that it was probably after 30 years of service to the countess Estelle Bernadotte. Estelle was American (born Estelle Romaine Manville, 1904). She got married to the Swedish count Folke Bernadotte in December 1928; and  Gerda - by then 47 years old and an experienced lady's maid who had worked as such not only among nobility in Sweden, but had also lived in both America and France, and was well used to travelling - got  employed as lady's maid to Estelle from shortly before their wedding; and ended up staying with that family the rest of her life.

If Gerda got the medal after 30 years of service, that dates this photo to 1958. An alternative might be if she received it in connection with her 75th birthday, in 1956. (She was born in 1881, and lived to be nearly 92 years old.) Either way, it seems that shortly after Gerda was presented with this medal, not only did she visit my grandparents Sally and Gustaf, but they also managed a reunion with all four sisters still alive. 

The woman next to Gerda here must be her sister Ester, who was born 1876 (five years older than Gerda), and died in 1959. (So this may even be the last time they got together.) The one standing in the middle behind Ester is Hildur (born 1892) - older half-sister to Sally on their mother's side, and step-sister to Gerda and Ester. The man to the left is Hildur's husband Olle. (They lived only a few minutes walk away from my grandparents.) And to the right, my grandmother Sally (born 1900). 

Below to the right is a double portrait of Ester and Gerda together from their youth (some time before Gerda emigrated to America in 1902); and to the left, one of Ester on her own (obviously some years later, but I don't know the year). 

Linking to Sepia Saturday 766



I ett kuvert med foton märkt "efter 1930" fann jag två foton som jag inte kan påminna mig att jag sett förut, men som uppenbarligen måste vara från samma tillfälle som andra foton av min farmor Sallys halvsyster Gerda Ekman med samma medalj, sittande i mina farföräldrars vardagsrum. Jag har tidigare spekulerat kring dessa och årtalet för och anledningen till medaljen, i ett inlägg från augusti 2022, Gerda's Medal. (Text där på både engelska och svenska.) 

De nytillkomna fotona ovan visar att även Gerdas och Sallys äldre syster Ester Ekman, (1876-1959), var med vid den här syskon-träffen. Detta bekräftar väl också min teori att Gerda troligen fick medaljen antingen år 1958 efter 30 år i tjänst hos familjen Bernadotte; eller möjligen i samband med sin 75-årsdag två år tidigare.

Med på gruppfotona här är också min farmor Sallys halvsyster Hildur (1892-1964) och hennes man Olle Hellsten, som bodde bara ett par minuters gångväg ifrån mina farföräldrar. (Hildur var dotter till Sallys mor Selma från hennes första äktenskap; medan Gerda och Ester var döttrar till Sallys far Samuel Emanuelsson från hans första äktenskap.)

2023-10-14

Family Portraits - Sepia Saturday 694


This portrait of  my great grandfather Samuel, born 1835, is the only one of him that exists. The sign he is holding says "Lord, increase our faith". Back in childhood I always wondered why, and I can't recall anyone ever explaining. (Possibly they did not know either.) He was a farmer and a merchant; not a clergyman. However (thanks to research done by one of my dad's cousins), much later I learned that Samuel was involved in the founding of a local free church in 1884. Then he was 49 years old, which seems to fit with this photo.

Back then, he was still married to his first wife, Anna Sophia. She died in 1894. (There is no photo of her.) Together they had 9 children, born between 1866-84. Two died in childhood, and another (at age 31) in 1899, before my own grandmother was born.

In 1898, Samuel got remarried to my great grandmother, Selma (born 1861);  she also a widow, with a young daughter. There is no wedding photo or other portrait of Samuel and Selma together either.


This photo of Selma is probably from her first marriage - or even earlier. Her first husband was younger than her; but died when their daughter Hildur was only two years old.

Together, Samuel and Selma got two more children: my grandmother Sally (born 1900) and her brother Nils (born 1902). Samuel died in 1907 (72 years old) and then Selma was a widow again, now with three young children. She did not get married again, but remained living on the farm with her step-son Carl (single), who had taken over the running of the farm already around 1903/4.  

In the census of 1910, two separate households are listed for the farm: Selma and her children (probably at the time living in a separate cottage) counted as one family; and Carl, his brother Gustaf (recently returned from eight years in America) and their sister Ester (housekeeping for them) as another. Later on, it seems that Carl, his stepmother and her children all lived together in the farmhouse, though. 


Selma (born 1861) and her sister Ida (born 1865). Not sure which year, but my guess is c. 1917. 

Ida and her husband Gustav  in 1908
(the year actually printed on the photo!)

 

My grandmother Sally (born 1900) and her half-sister Hildur (born 1892 in Selma's first marriage). Same studio background as in the photo of Selma and Ida. Could be from the same occasion.


Hildur, Selma and Sally, around the same time as well. (Compare Hildur's bow tie here to the one Ida is wearing in the first portrait.)


Another studio portrait of Sally and Hildur
 - a few years later, I think.




Sally's half sisters on her father's side, Ester (born 1876) and Gerda (born 1881). Must be from before Gerda emigrated to America - 1902 or earlier.


Ester, a bit later in life (year unknown)



▲Gerda with a friend, from Chicago (1902-1910)▼
LEFT: Gerda to the right - RIGHT: Gerda to the left


Gerda returned to Sweden in 1910/11, but soon went abroad again.


Gerda in Lyon, France, 1913 (or 15?)



Hildur, Gerda and Sally. My guess is that this was taken on Gerda's return from France in 1919 - after the end of WWII.



Gustaf, born 1878, also emigrated to America in 1902, and returned in 1910. The portrait above is from Port Allegany, probably 1903. The photo below is one I just recently found and realised that it must be Gustaf to the right. It's printed on American postcard paper (but not written on) so I'm guessing that it must be from his later years in America. I don't know who the other two men are.


Once back in Sweden, Gustaf did not go abroad again. He helped out on the family farm for a while; then moved away to work elsewhere in Sweden (also with farm work); then returned again to help out at the family farm - and took over when his older brother Carl died in 1928. But I think the farm was sold after Sally, Nils and Hildur all got married and moved away - to do with distribution of inheritance.


Carl, Selma, Hildur and Sally 


Hildur, Selma and Sally, probably summer 1930


Nils, Sally and Selma
("when big hats were the fashion")


Linking to Sepia Saturday 694 - Portraits









2022-02-25

The Homecoming (1919) - Sepia Saturday 610

After the end of WWI (in November 1918), it seems Gerda (older half-sister to my grandmother Sally) remained in France for nearly another year, with the same employer, in Lyon. According to info I got years ago from a grandson of Gerda's sister Emma), a work certificate dated 28.9.1919, in Lyon, states that she has been working as Lady's Maid, and is an "excellent packer and hairdresser and a neat needlewoman, her French is good". 

I don't have the name of Gerda's "lady" in France, but the work certificate, written in English, seems to support my theory that she may have been American rather than French. And if so, maybe she decided for her own part that it was now time for her to go back to the US. For all I know, she may also have wanted Gerda to go with her. But whether Gerda had that option or not, she decided instead to go back to Sweden. (Cf. a comment Gerda wrote on a card to her brother Gustaf in Sweden already back in January 1915: "Maybe I'll come home instead of America.")  (G.073.03) 

Alas, I don't have any postcards written by Gerda in 1919. But I know that she went back to Sweden, because her next employment was in Stockholm. 

I also have this photo...

Photographer: Emil Svensson, Fristad

... taken by a photographer in Fristad, Sweden, where the family farm Storegården was situated. 

There is no date attached to the photo, though. When I first found it (years ago), I thought it might be from when Gerda returned from America. But that was in 1911, and the fashion here seems too advanced for that year. And if it was from 1911, then who was that woman on the right - holding hands with Gerda? The one on the left looked like Hildur, half-sister to my grandmother Sally, step-sister to Gerda. But in 1911, Sally was only 11 years old, so couldn't be her on the right... 

Fast forward to December 1919, though, and it all makes sense. (Even if I still have difficulties quite recognizing Sally in that hat pulled down over her eyes!) Gerda's return from France after the war would no doubt have felt worth celebrating with a visit to a photographer's studio. Perhaps they are even wearing the latest fashion "straight from Paris". I'm thinking Gerda came home for Christmas, bringing gifts. (And she's even likely to actually have visited Paris on her way home.)


If this is from December 1919, we have: 
Hildur (27), Gerda (38), and Sally (19, soon to turn 20)
(And the fashion fits rather well with 1919/20, I think.)

Link to a website with some 1919 women's fashion
https://vintagedancer.com/1900s/1919-clothing/


Linking to Sepia Saturday 610


(The latest fashion from Paris?)

SVENSKA

Efter andra världskrigets slut (november 1918), tycks Gerda ha stannat kvar i Lyon i Frankrike ännu ett år, hos samma arbetsgivare. Enligt uppgifter jag fick för ett antal år sedan från en gemensam släkting, sonson till Gerdas äldre syster Emma, så finns ett arbetsintyg på engelska daterat 28.9.1919 i Lyon, som säger att Gerda arbetat som "lady's maid" (kammarjungfru) och är skickling i att packa, som hårfrisörska och sömmerska, och talar god franska. Jag har ingen uppgift om hennes arbetsgivares namn eller nationalitet, men att intyget är skrivet på engelska kan stödja min teori att hon var amerikan snarare än fransyska. Och om hon var amerikan, så kan ju Gerdas anställning ha avslutats på grund av arbetsgivarens beslut att återvända till Amerika. Kanske hade Gerda också erbjudande om att följa med dit, men hon valde hur som helst att istället återvända till Sverige. (Jmf ett kort hon skrev till Gustaf i januari 2015, G.073.03, där hon skriver i ett PS att "kanske jag kommer hem istället för till Amerika".)  Tyvärr har jag inga vykort från Gerda skrivna under 1919, men att hon återvände till Sverige vet jag, eftersom hennes nästa anställning var i Stockholm. 

Jag har också fotografiet ovan, taget av fotograf Emil Svensson i Fristad, Västergötland, där familjens gård Storegården låg. När jag först fann detta foto trodde jag att det kanske var från Gerdas hemkomst från Amerika. Men därifrån återvände hon 1911, och klädmodet här verkar lite för avancerat för det året. Dessutom, om det var 1911 - vem är i så fall kvinnan till höger, som nästan sitter i knäet på Gerda, och håller henne i handen? Kvinnan till vänster känner jag igen som min farmor Sallys halvsyster Hildur (styvsyster till Gerda.) Men 1911 var Sally själv bara 11 år. 

Om vi istället spolar fram till december 1919 så stämmer det mycket bättre. Då var Hildur 27, Gerda 38, och Sally 19, snart 20. Gerdas hemkomst från Frankrike efter kriget kändes säkert värd att fira med ett besök hos fotogragen. Och kanske är flickorna t.o.m. klädda i senaste modet från Paris? Jag tänker mig att Gerda kom hem till Storegården till jul, och hade med sig presenter. (Det verkar också mycket troligt att hon faktiskt besökte Paris på hemvägen från Lyon till Sverige.)

2012-03-05

Sally (1900-1979) (my grandmother)

Som jag nämnde i föregående inlägg, kan jag inte hitta några barndomsfoton av min farmor Sally (född 1901). Det är inget konstigt med det i och för sig – det fanns säkert ingen kamera i familjen på den tiden. Det enda som är underligt är att jag ändå har en minnesbild av att i min egen barndom ha sett ett sådant foto, av Sally som liten “tulta”, i vit klänning och hätta med knytband – inte ett porträttfoto, utan en bild tagen på avstånd, med den lilla flickan på en väg eller gångstig, med Storegården i bakgrunden…

När jag själv var liten, så brukade jag sitta med farmor och titta i hennes fotoalbum, och hon berättade för mig om sin egen barndom. Och jag kunde nästan ha svurit på nu, att det där fotot skulle finnas bland dem i ett av de där bruna albumen med kort nedstuckna i utskurna luckor för bilder i olika format – en del ovala, en del fyrkantiga. Men det finns inte ett enda som visar farmor yngre än i övre tonåren. 

Jag kan bara dra slutsatsen att jag måste ha målat upp den där barndomsbilden för min inre syn, medan farmor berättade för mig om ett minne från sin barndom – kanske inte ens hennes eget minne, utan en historia som hon i sin tur fått berättad för sig av sin mamma och sina äldre syskon: Hur hon en gång, som mycket liten (ett par år?) “rymde hemifrån”. Men hur någon i familjen såg henne i hennes lilla vita klänning och hätta tulta neråt vägen… Och snart hann ifatt henne! Vad jag är tämligen säker på är att jag själv hörde den historien flera gånger från farmor – och själv brukade be henne att “berätta om när du rymde hemifrån”. Och hon berättade, och broderade säkert ut det hela lite också.

Men de tidigaste bilderna jag hittat är nog ett par som fanns bland farmors halvsyster Hildurs efterlämnade foton:

Ett är taget i trädgårdsmiljö, troligen på Storegården: Hildur t.v. och Sally t.h., tillsammans med mor Selma. Utifrån att framför allt Selma ser äldre ut på de kort som jag kan datera till slutet av 20-talet; och därtill de långa kjolarna och Hildurs hatt, så tror jag att detta kanske kan vara taget ca 1916-17.

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Hildur, Sally and Selma (ca 1916-17?)

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Likaså det nedanstående fotot av Sally och Hildur som uppenbarligen är taget i porträttstudio (också det från Hildurs fotosamling):

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Sally and Hildur  (also ca 1916-17?)

I ett kuvert som pappa märkt “före 1930) hittade jag också ett som verkar vara tagit i samma studio (jämför bakgrunden!), av deras mor Selma (t.v.), och troligen hennes syster Ida (antecknat av pappa med ? på baksidan). Det som talar för att dessa kort skulle kunna vara tagna vid ungefär samma tid är modedetaljen med den stora rosetten, som bärs av Hildur på trädgårdsfotot ovan, och av Ida på ateljéfotot nedan:

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Great-grandmother Selma with her sister Ida(?)
probably ca 1916-17 as well

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Sally, ~ late 1920’s

I farmors senare album finns det här kortet från hennes ungdom inklistrat, bara med anteckning “Vid Öresjö”. Det är en unik bild på henne med det långa håret utslaget. Min gissning är att det kan vara taget av farfar under deras förlovningstid.

Farmor hade kvar sitt långa hår länge – jag tror ända till in på 1970-talet - men hade det alltid upprullat i en låg knut eller valk i nacken. Från ett eller flera tillfällen när jag som barn bodde över själv (utan mamma och pappa) hos farmor och farfar, minns jag farmor i långt vitt nattlinne göra kvällstoalett vid köksbänken (något badrum hade de ju inte), kamma sitt långa mörka hår och fläta det för natten. Fortfarande då (tidigt 60-tal) nästan midjelångt. Jag minns också att hon sa att farfar tyckte om hennes långa hår, och inte ville att hon skulle klippa av det...

Här är en annan bild från stranden vid Öresjö (Skalle),
troligen från deras förlovningstid:

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Sally & Gustaf ca 1929

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Sally & Gustaf ca 1954

 

In English

As said in the previous post, I can’t find any childhood photos of my grandmother Sally (b. 1901). There is nothing really strange about that – I don’t suppose they had a camera in the family. The only thing which is odd about it is that I still have a mental image in my head of having seen – in my own childhood – a photo of her as a toddler; wearing a little white dress and bonnet kind of hat – not a portrait photo, but one taken from a bit of distance, with her toddling down a path or driveway, with the farmhouse in the background.

When I was a little girl myself, I know I sometimes used to sit with my grandmother and look in her old photo albums. And I could almost have sworn that such a photo would be in there! But there isn’t. I think I must have made up the image in my head, based on a story she used to tell me (and which I liked, so that I would ask her to tell it again, and again) about one time, when she at very young age, only a toddler,  “ran away from home” – although did not get very far before some other family member caught sight of her little white bonnet and caught up with her and fetched her back. It probably wasn’t even her own memory, but a story she herself was told over and over by her mother and older siblings.

The earliest photos I’ve found of her seem to be from her upper teens, and showing her together with her (half-) sister Hildur. Judging by the fashion and how tall Sally is, my guess is 1916-17. (Hildur was eight years older, but much shorter!) One of the photos is an outdoors picture (presumably at the farm) and the other a studio portrait.

I also found a portrait from the same studio of their mother Selma, presumably with her sister Ida. (Note made by my father on the back of the photo.) One detail besides the studio background that supports the idea that this photo is from around the same time, is the same kind of big bow worn by Hildur in the garden photo and by Ida in the studio photo.

The next photo is a unique one showing Sally with her long hair let down. My guess is this might have been taken by my grandfather Gustaf while they were dating/ engaged in the late 1920’s. Sally kept her long hair until in her 70’s, and it did not turn grey until then either. But she always wore it in a bun or rolled up at the nape of her neck. From some stay at their house in my childhood, early 1960’s, I remember her combing and braiding her hair at night (still reaching almost down to her waist); and telling me that my grandfather liked her long hair and did not want her to cut it off… (Gustaf died in 1969 at the age of 65. Sally survived him by ten years and died in 1979.)

The next-to-last photo is probably from around 1929, it’s from the lake beach below where they built the house they moved into as newly-weds in 1930. The last photo I think was taken in connection with my grandfather’s 50th birthday in 1954 (same summer my parents got married, and the year before I was born).

 

2012-03-04

Selma and Samuel (my great-grandparents)

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Min farmors föräldrar / My p.grandmother’s parents.

Samuel Emanuelsson, 27.2.1835 - 15.2.1907
Selma Alvida Pettersdotter, 16.8.1861 - 17.3.1941
m. 10.12.1898
(second marriage for both of them)

Detta är de porträtt av farmor Sallys föräldrar som brukade stå på skåpet i vardagsrummet. Så vitt jag vet, så är det det enda fotot som existerar av Samuel (som dog när Sally var 7 år).

När jag var liten undrade jag alltid varför denne förfader satt och höll i en skylt med budskapet “Herre föröka oss tron”, men jag tror aldrig jag fick något riktigt svar på det. Först nu när jag går igenom gamla familjepapper, så hittar jag också en artikel skriven om Samuel av pappas kusin Sten, som bl.a. upplyser om att Samuel år 1884 var med om att grunda Borgstena missionsförsamling. (Se noteringar till vykort 1.1 - Fristads missionshus.)

Min gissning nu är att fotot är taget i det sammanhanget, då han i början var vice ordförande i församlingen. I så fall bör Samuel på fotot vara i 50-årsåldern, vilket jag tycker verkar stämma bättre än om det skulle varit taget kring 1898 då han (63 år gammal) gifte om sig med Selma. (Hans första hustru Anna Sofia, som fött honom nio barn, dog 1894.)

När jag söker på frasen “O herre försöka oss tron” som jag vet finns i något av evangelierna (Lukas 17:5 - Och apostlarna sade till Herren: »Föröka vår tro.») finner jag på en sida från EFS, att den också förekommer i en sång av Lina Sandell: “O Herre, föröka, föröka oss tron, att otron ej måtte förlama vår hand, när vi satt den till plogen.”

Det ungdomliga porträttet av Selma är troligen också från före hennes äktenskap med Samuel. Selma var 30 år fyllda när hon 21.11.1891 ingick sitt första äktenskap och gifte sig med den nio år yngre soldaten Alfred Lundgren (f. 5.8.1870). Han dog tre år senare (1894, endast 24 år gammal) och lämnade henne som änka med en tvåårig dotter (Hildur). När hon gifte om sig med Samuel var Selma alltså 37, han 63.

Tillsammans fick Samuel och Selma ytterligare två barn:
Sally Maria 3.2.1900 – 27.2. 1979 (min farmor)
och Nils Helmer 17.8.1902 – 1.5.1971

Selmas äktenskap med Samuel varade drygt åtta år. Samuel dog 19o7, när Sally nyss fyllt 7 och Nils var 4½ (och Hildur snart 15).

Selma på äldre dar finns med på en hel del foton i farmors album, men här är ett favoritporträtt som också fanns med bland de inramade fotona. Troligen är hon här runt 75 eller äldre. På foton som jag kan datera till sent 1920-tal bär hon inte glasögon. På ett kort där min pappa är 7-8 år, gör hon det. (Detektivarbete!)

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In English

As far as I know, the portrait of my great-grandfather Samuel (1835-1907) is the only one of him that exists. The sign he is holding in his hand is a Bible quote and also part of a line from a Swedish hymn: “Lord, increase our faith.” (Luke 17:5)

It always seemed a little odd to me, this photo of the stern-looking ancestor holding those words in his hand when having his portrait taken. But of course back in childhood, I did not really consider when the photograph was taken, and how rare it was in those days to have one’s portrait taken at all.

Now, weighing all the facts that I have managed to gather so far, my guess is that the photo was probably taken around 1884, when Samuel was involved in the founding of a new free mission covenant church. (Compare this post about the first postcard in Gustav’s album.) This was a big thing back then since it involved disassociating oneself from the Lutheran state church and being excluded from (and excluding oneself from) taking part in communion there.

According to an article written by an cousin of my dad’s (also grandson to Samuel) in 2007, church records show that Samuel and his first wife used to take part of the communion in the Church regularly three times a year until the mid 1870’s; then they stopped. This is explained when Samuel instead appears as vice-chairman of the new mission covenant church.

This photo would then be showing Samuel at the age of around 50, which seems about right, and makes more sense to me than assuming it to be taken around the time of his second marriage in 1898 (when he was 63).

Things were very different around 90 years later, in the early 1970’s, when I myself of my own volition in my teens joined a mission covenant church. Since then I’ve also been member of a couple of other kinds of free churches while still also retaining membership in the Church of Sweden. Which, by the way, since the year 2000 is no longer a state church either!

Selma’s portrait is probably also from before her marriage to Samuel, although she was 26 years younger than him.

When Selma was 30, she first got married to a young soldier of only 21, Alfred Lundgren. He died only three years later, leaving Selma a widow with a 2-year-old daughter (Hildur); the same year as Samuel’s first wife, who had born him nine children, also died. Four years later, they got married again to each other, and then had two more children: My grandmother Sally (born 1900) and her brother Nils (1902). But the marriage did not last more than just over eight years, since in 1907, Samuel died too. By then, his eldest son Carl had already formally taken over the farm though; and Selma and her children stayed on there too, for another 23 years. (Carl, by the way, was born the same year as Selma’s first husband!)

In the photo of Selma in her old age she is probably 75 or more (she lived to be nearly 80). In photos that I can date to the late 1920’s, she is not wearing glasses. In photos from when my father is around 7 or 8, she is wearing them. (Detective work, this is!)

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PS. Additional googling tells me that the bow tie and the beard probably support early dating of the Samuel photo as well!

 

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